Addicted to Love

The question has only come up because my sex drive is really really high but I have told my girl friend that I'm not ready for sex, she is also still really young so I'm not going to do that to her. She's 15 and I'm 20 soon. Its not ok yet, it would be if she was 20 and I 25 right? I love her so so much and I'm going to wait the next few years before losing my virginity with her. But because of my bad addiction to porn, I've been at it and I fear that my actions may tell her that the porn is better or something, which its not. Would it be cheating? I love her so much and she should know about my problem, I'm fighting it all the time (thank god for videos games) and I just don't want her to feel like she is anything less than she really is which she's stunningly beautiful and utterly amazing in my eyes. Please help, I'm at an inner war...

--Love Warrior

Jamie says: Don't be a schmuck. There's nothing wrong with looking at porn, especially if you're nineteen and you're not getting laid. If you think you're girlfriend wouldn't approve, don't tell her. It's not hurting anyone. You get some relief and spend less money on video games, your girlfriend gets less pressure put on her, and most of all you support the porn stars. They are the unsung heroes of the nation. When you look at porn, everyone wins. It's like giving a big high-five to America.


John says: I think Jamie is absolutely right here. There is nothing wrong with porn. Nothing. There is no need to tell her anything, as long as you keep that belt of chastity on, waiting for to mature into a woman. I would like to add that your relationship with this kid will end in tears long before she is old enough to bump uglies. 15 year olds don't know what they want or how to think about anything. And if I'm wrong, enjoy crankin' it for the next five years, and get a plastic slip cover for your keyboard. Trust me, they're worth it.